Tilly is a barker. She gets anxious whenever she is the vicinity of another dog. I’m nervous as well, and I know she probably picks up on my nerves. It seems like we are in a catch-22 situation where I’m nervous that Tilly barks. And Tilly barks because I’m nervous.
I think the nervousness at seeing other dogs stems from her having Bess by her side for a large proportion of her life. She used to walk squashed next to her flank touching flank, which must make walking on her own slightly difficult. The nervousness on my part stems from an incident where a loose dog in our neighbourhood attacked Bess. I tried to break it up, not thinking of getting attacked myself. This is why I think I tense up when Tilly approaches other dogs, as I’m not sure how the dog we walk past is going to behave.
So over the last few months I’ve been trying to get Tilly used to other dogs again. My dad’s puppy, Bella, has been round our house a few times and Tilly has been fine with her. Of course that is her turf and she doesn’t feel threatened. It is on the walks that she is anxious.
I decided to show Tilly that these dogs aren’t something to be worried about. It started off with an elderly golden retriever that we were about to walk past on our leisurely stroll through the park. The dog halted and refused to go any further until Tilly walked past.
Leaving my partner to deal with Tilly, I stroked the golden retriever to try to show my dog that he was nothing to be scared of. He loved the attention, and as Tilly continued walking towards him, she came over and sniffed his mouth before turning to his backside and greeting him. Then what proceeded was a lovely sight that I wish I had captured on camera. Both dogs were nose to bum saying hello, and Tilly’s tail was wagging. She was happy, and there was no sense of nervousness at all.
I have done this twice since, and yesterday Tilly became friends with a three-year-old Border terrier named Chrissie. Her owner gave Tilly all the attention she seemed to crave and the two dogs were nose to tail with Tilly’s posterior wagging with glee.
My aim is to do this with every dog that I walk past. I know that sounds like a difficult task, and I know sometimes other walkers are in a world of their own, but just by spending a bit of time introducing Tilly to these other dogs is allowing her to gain more confidence.
What have you done to get your dog used to others? Let me know below.